Child marriage is a social evil that continues to plague our
society even today. The children who get married at an early age, especially
the girls, feel isolated and helpless with limited freedom. It is a widespread human
rights violation that robs their childhood forever.
In India, child
marriage is a complex problem. It is deeply rooted in patriarchy. Child brides
are stuck in the vicious circle of poverty due to lack of education and earning
opportunities. Their health suffers because of underage and complicated
pregnancies. The consequences of child marriage are drastic and not only
limit the progress of children but also of the overall society
Even though strict laws are criminalizing the practice of
child marriage, we have not had much success to curb this problem. CHILDLINE
1098 is leaving no stone unturned to help eradicate child marriage. It is
India’s only 24-hour free emergency phone outreach service for children in need
of care and protection.
With the help CHILDLINE 1098, Raji, 16, convinced her
parents to stop her marriage. Raji hailed from Chittoor, Andhra Pradesh. She had just
completed her SSLC and her parents did not allow her to study any further. She
often expressed her desire to study further to her friend Rathi who listened to
her woes but was helpless. Raji’s
parents were planning her wedding. She vehemently opposed her marriage but her
parents continued with the arrangements. Raji shared her grief with her friend
Rathi who informed CHILDLINE 1098. Rathi had learnt about CHILDLINE during an awareness
session in her school.
CHILDLINE along with
the local police and an Anganwadi worker immediately rushed to the rescue of
the child. They gave ESG (Emotional Support and Guidance) to the child and
counselled the parents. The CHILDLINE team explained the consequences of child marriage and laws against child marriage to the parents. Eventually, Raji’s parents gave in and called
off her wedding. They also gave a written statement that they will not organize
her wedding until she is 18 years of age.
Thus, a friend in need is a friend indeed. If Raji’s friend
Rathi had not informed CHILDLINE, Raji would have been stuck in a vicious
circle of child marriage. You too can be a responsible friend like Rathi and
help stop child marriage. All you have to do call 1098 for an immediate
intervention to protect childhood.
Disclaimer: Names and details have been changed to maintain confidentiality as required.
