A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED

Child marriage is a social evil that continues to plague our society even today. The children who get married at an early age, especially the girls, feel isolated and helpless with limited freedom. It is a widespread human rights violation that robs their childhood forever.

 In India, child marriage is a complex problem. It is deeply rooted in patriarchy. Child brides are stuck in the vicious circle of poverty due to lack of education and earning opportunities. Their health suffers because of underage and complicated pregnancies.  The consequences of child marriage are drastic and not only limit the progress of children but also of the overall society

Even though strict laws are criminalizing the practice of child marriage, we have not had much success to curb this problem. CHILDLINE 1098 is leaving no stone unturned to help eradicate child marriage. It is India’s only 24-hour free emergency phone outreach service for children in need of care and protection.

With the help CHILDLINE 1098, Raji, 16, convinced her parents to stop her marriage. Raji hailed from Chittoor, Andhra Pradesh. She had just completed her SSLC and her parents did not allow her to study any further. She often expressed her desire to study further to her friend Rathi who listened to her woes but was helpless.  Raji’s parents were planning her wedding. She vehemently opposed her marriage but her parents continued with the arrangements. Raji shared her grief with her friend Rathi who informed CHILDLINE 1098. Rathi had learnt about CHILDLINE during an awareness session in her school.

 CHILDLINE along with the local police and an Anganwadi worker immediately rushed to the rescue of the child. They gave ESG (Emotional Support and Guidance) to the child and counselled the parents. The CHILDLINE team explained the consequences of child marriage and laws against child marriage to the parents.  Eventually, Raji’s parents gave in and called off her wedding. They also gave a written statement that they will not organize her wedding until she is 18 years of age.

Thus, a friend in need is a friend indeed. If Raji’s friend Rathi had not informed CHILDLINE, Raji would have been stuck in a vicious circle of child marriage. You too can be a responsible friend like Rathi and help stop child marriage. All you have to do call 1098 for an immediate intervention to protect childhood.

Disclaimer:  Names and details have been changed to maintain confidentiality as required.